I am white.
I have a master’s degree.
I am now firmly upper-middle class.
I’m lucky enough to be able to stay home and raise my kids.
I spend at least a small percentage of each day reading the latest research or news on disability rights, advocacy, and inclusion. I blog about it here.
I spend a lot of money on countless conferences and intensive advocacy trainings.
I’ve used all of this privilege to leverage a decent education for my son with Down syndrome. Unlike 83% of his peers with Intellectual Disabilities, he is fully included in general education with proper supports. I’m the self-proclaimed CEO of his Individualized Education Plan (IEP), and I would make CEO pay if someone paid out for solid IEPs.
Read Related Post: Clearing the Way for Systems Change in 2020
You’d think with all this privilege that my son would be set. That he would be guaranteed an appropriate education in the Least Restrictive Environment (LRE) with proper supports for the rest of his educational career.
But that’s the funny thing about the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA); the federal law that opened the school house doors for people like my son who used to be institutionalized, pushed away, othered. This tremendously revolutionary law is not.
Read Related Post: 7 New Research Studies to Win the Fight for Inclusion
Yes, it gives parents the right to symbolically “bear arms:” we have supposed equity at the IEP table and due process protections. But then there’s that pesky “I” in IEP. If advocating for my son and other families has taught me anything it’s this: A lot of us are holding up our pitchforks and screaming, but we’re doing it ALL BY OURSELVES in a vacuum. Unlike the 2nd Amendment, IDEA doesn’t allow us to create the IEP version of a “well-formed militia.” It’s you against a cadre of school officials who’ve been entrenched in the institutionalized promotion of ability-based segregation that goes against all best practices and research.
Some parents buy into this system. Either because of innocent cultural deference or because of intentional ableism. I really like to believe most are in the former category. These parents believe they shouldn’t questioned professionals who are tasked with protecting and educating their child under the law. These types of parents may also have few of the privileges that help me understand and navigate the complicated special education system. Either way, both groups of parents don’t question IEP team staff . The ableist parents truly believe their child is better off segregated in a self-contained class or special school, even though all the research says they aren’t. The vast majority of parents are never really giving an option to start their child in the least restrictive environment with appropriate supports.
The segregated class becomes the best choice, because it’s the only choice.
Parents are given significant power under IDEA to be an equal decision maker for their child. The key phrase is “their child.” The emphasis on the individual at first glance seems powerful. Who doesn’t want a customized document for their child?
Just the other day a parent posted on my Facebook page: “It totally depends on the ‘individual’ needs of the student. As it should be.” There’s that word again: individual. Schools use the “I” in IEP to segregate: your child will receive a more “individualized” education in this “special” classroom is the common mantra. The problem is individualization undermines our community’s broader push for including ALL students with disabilities NO MATTER WHAT! The “I” in IEP is being used to divide and conquer our community, and segregate our children.
No student! I mean ABSOLUTELY NO STUDENT has individual needs that require a segregated setting! Separate is NEVER equal, and framing self-contained classes and special schools as “individualized” so somehow better does such a disservice to an entire class of humans.
Furthermore, it’s that pesky “I” again that prevents us from banning together. Enforcement of IDEA is handled on an “individualized” basis. If you have the privilege to take your school to court, you’re going alone. And too many due process decisions related to IDEA end right at that individual child, without a broader social change for ALL students with disabilities.
Our family makes up a tiny percentage of privileged, systems-changers. And still, I have no idea if my son will be appropriately educated next year in his least restrictive environment with supports. Think about that for a moment. Not even the most privileged amongst us are guaranteed what the law requires.
My district may get a new special education director, or he may get a general education teacher who doesn’t want him in class, or we may have to move. Countless factors outside my son’s solid IEP can drive us towards the brink of segregation. And the “I” in IEP will be there to push us over the edge.